How Do You Make Your Spouse Move Out of the House When You’re Divorcing?

Author : Jeanette Soltys

Living with the person you’re divorcing can be one of the most emotionally exhausting parts of the process. It’s natural to want space—especially when tensions are high—but in Georgia, making your spouse leave the marital home isn’t as simple as asking them to go. If they don’t voluntarily agree to move out, legal intervention is often required. Here’s what you need to know about your options, the legal process, and why many couples continue living together during divorce proceedings.

You Cannot Force Your Spouse Out Without a Court Order

Under Georgia law, both spouses have equal rights to the marital residence unless a judge says otherwise. That means you cannot legally force your spouse to leave the home just because you’re filing for divorce—no matter whose name is on the lease or mortgage.

If your spouse refuses to move out, you must file a motion requesting exclusive use and possession of the marital residence. This motion typically requires:

• Filing for divorce

• Requesting a temporary hearing

• Presenting evidence to the court that continued cohabitation is harmful or unmanageable

Temporary Hearings Take Time—and Money

Requesting a court order for exclusive use of the home isn’t an overnight fix. Temporary hearings take time to schedule and prepare for, and they often involve attorney’s fees, evidence gathering, and the risk of a contested response. Judges are generally reluctant to order one spouse to leave unless:

• There’s evidence of domestic violence or abuse

• Children are at risk

• One spouse’s continued presence is significantly disruptive or damaging

Because of the time and expense involved, it’s often not a viable option for families already facing financial strain.

Financial Reality Often Keeps Couples Under One Roof

Many divorcing couples simply cannot afford to maintain two households. In Georgia, it’s not uncommon for:

• Stay-at-home parents to need employment before living independently

• The marital home to be sold before either party can secure housing

• Couples to remain in the home together for months—even up to a year—while the divorce is finalized

This shared living situation can be emotionally taxing, especially when children are involved or communication has broken down. That’s why individual therapy can be an invaluable support during this period.

Coping While Living Together During Divorce

If you’re facing the reality of cohabitating during divorce, here are a few practical steps to maintain peace and sanity:

• Establish boundaries: Designate separate spaces and agree on household responsibilities.

• Minimize conflict: Avoid unnecessary arguments, especially in front of children.

• Seek support: Therapy, support groups, or legal coaching can help you navigate the emotional toll.

• Focus on the long game: Divorce is a process, not an event. This living arrangement is temporary, even if it doesn’t feel that way right now.

At AHFL, we help clients navigate these complex and emotional challenges through our divorce services. Whether you’re seeking a peaceful resolution or need court intervention, we’ll guide you every step of the way.

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