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Author : Jeanette Soltys
Child support is only part of the financial picture after a divorce or separation. The number on the worksheet covers the basics, but real life keeps generating bills that fall outside it. A surprise trip to urgent care. Braces. The deposit for travel soccer. Knowing how Georgia treats these extra costs, and where parents actually have room to negotiate, saves a lot of friction down the road.
“Uncovered” or “uninsured” medical expenses are the health costs that land on a parent after insurance has paid its share. Think co-pays, deductibles, dental and vision work, orthodontics, and counseling sessions a plan only partly reimburses. Anything the policy leaves on the table belongs in this category, and over a few years it adds up fast.
Georgia’s child support guidelines generally contemplate dividing these costs pro rata, meaning in proportion to each parent’s income. If one parent earns 70 percent of the combined parental income, that parent absorbs roughly 70 percent of the uninsured medical bills. The split tracks the same income figures that produced the support number in the first place, on the theory that the higher earner has more capacity to pay.
That said, plenty of parents negotiate something simpler. A flat 50/50 split is common, especially when incomes are close or when both sides just want a rule that is easy to apply without recalculating percentages every time a bill shows up. Others land on a middle ratio like 60/40 because it feels right for their situation. Whatever you choose, write it into the parenting plan or final order in plain language. A vague agreement is the thing that turns a 40 dollar co-pay into a three week argument.
Extracurriculars sit in a looser category. Georgia’s guidelines assume ordinary child support already covers a slice of these costs, which is fine in theory and falls apart the moment a kid makes a competitive team or picks up an instrument that needs private lessons. Tournament travel, registration fees, equipment, recital costs, none of that was really priced into the base number.
Because the law gives parents latitude here, you can structure activities however suits your family. Some couples split everything evenly. Others apply the same income-based percentage they use for medical bills. Others go activity by activity, agreeing that one parent covers band while the other handles club volleyball. There is no single correct structure, only the one both parents will actually honor.
The agreements that hold up are the specific ones. Before you sign anything, it is worth settling a few practical questions. Which expenses need both parents to approve before the money is spent? How does a parent submit a receipt and get paid back, and on what timeline? Is there a ceiling on activity spending, so one parent cannot enroll a child in four expensive programs and expect the other to cover half of it?
Spelling this out feels tedious when everyone is cooperative. It is exactly what protects you when cooperation runs thin.
At Atlanta Holistic Family Law, we help parents build child support and parenting plan terms that anticipate these costs instead of leaving them to chance. If you are working through how to divide expenses with your co-parent, schedule a discovery call and we will walk through your options together.
Jeanette Soltys, Esq. is the founder of Atlanta Holistic Family Law and a Certified Amicable Divorce Professional. A graduate of Wake Forest Law with nearly two decades of experience, she is a member of the Amicable Divorce Network and is a multi-year Super Lawyers honoree.
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